Salam...
I have just came across a comment from a social media that makes me want to blow out everything that's inside me.
It is not about my work.
It is not about the things that I have.
It is not about food.
It is not even about MH 370 (but can relate to it somehow).
It is more about the value you have inside you...very subjective.
Ok, 'value' is very big! My concern now is the respect and sensitivity around you.
I, as a parent wants to ensure that my children live life to the fullest. Not to tell them what to do, but to guide them on what they should / should not do.
In whatever they will do, I would like them to hold on to the value of Respect. This is because, Respect is such a powerful value that somehow differentiate the many categories of people.
The relation of respect and my social media reading just now is that I am sad that there are people arguing with what Allah has given to all of us.
Here, I would like to let all know that I am one of those parents who did not send my child to Sekolah Agama (SA). It is not because I could not afford it, but because I could not argue with the plan made for me by my Creator.
Every single person has their own plan and own story. So, do not accuse those who are not in the norm with such low-iq, pathetic comments, just because you have no problem with it or could not see any problem with it! Come on....be sensitive to those around you and open up your mind!
To those of this group (the insensitive people), I would like to ask, is SA a must? From my very basic knowledge, the education of Islamic Studies is a must, but it DOES NOT say you have to go to SA to earn the knowledge. Knowledge can be earned EVERYWHERE people! And, not ALL those went to SA or even Universities (Islamic based) is a Saint - sorry to say, but a lot that I came across is the opposite of it, and maybe those who commented with "low-iq, pathetic comments", did you go to SA??? What does that shows???
I did not dare to say I am against SA because I did enrolled my child in SA before, but Allah's plan supersite everything.
To those parents who are on the same line as me, you know better.
The bottom line here, it is really up the to person itself and with the blessing from Allah. Like I said, everybody has their own story, which we have to respect.
I, myself is trying to hold to the value of Respect as much as I can in my everyday life and I hope my children will do to.
That is why I'll try to remind my children to stay level headed, be yourself and RESPECT others, especially on their Birthdays wishes :)
I did not went SA.
-Love n Respect-
I agree. Tidak menghantar anak ke SA, bukanlah bermaksud ibubapa tidak menitikberatkan asuhan agama dalam anak-anak. Tapi asuhan itu tidak semestinya HANYA di SA. As parents, it is actually OUR responsibility to teach our children as and when we see fit to do so. Lain budak, lain peribadi dan penerimaannya. So, dalam membesarkan mereka, we have to adapt and improvise to ensure that they understand the lessons we impart.
ReplyDeletePedulikkan apa orang nak kata, friend. One thing aku belajar for the past few years, is to take in the positive criticism, and ignore all the rest. What matters is you and your loved ones. People will always have things to say about other people. Just don't give them the luxury of letting what they say get to you.
Love (and respect) always!
Ye fren..... and tq for the support :D
ReplyDelete*bengang pulak aku bila baca comment2 org yg selfish* hehehehehehe